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What bothers you and why?

Hey, listen. If something’s bugging you and it’s totally out of your hands, don’t let it get to you. Usually, if it’s something you can fix, you’ll do something about it, right? But when it’s something you can’t control, it can be tough to know what to do. Here’s what I do: I pray about it, let it go, and trust that God will take care of it. There are Bible verses that can help you through any situation. So if something’s bothering you, just ask God for guidance. I found some verses with a quick Google search.

Philippians 4:6 – Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

Proverbs 3:5 – Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Philippians 4:13 – I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me.

Matthew 18:15-18 – Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.   (Read More…)

Proverbs 3:6 – In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

Matthew 7:7 – Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you:

Mark 11:22-25 – And Jesus answering saith unto them, Have faith in God.   (Read More…)

Psalms 50:15 – And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.

1 John 1:9 – If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

John 3:16 – For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

2 Peter 3:9 – The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.

Ecclesiastes 1:2 – Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity.

1 John 4:19 – We love him, because he first loved us.

Luke 17:3-4 – Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.   (Read More…)

These are just a few examples of what you can find in the Bible to guide you through tough situations. If you don’t know the Bible well, I would advise you to seek counsel from someone who does. The reason I say find someone who knows the Bible well is because, more than likely, they will help you to find a positive solution to your problem.

Avoid negative people like the plague. There is an old saying “messory loves company ” so sometimes a lot of your problems can stem from the company you keep. Negative people in life can definitely bring down the mood. Here are some ways to recognize them:

Communication:

• Constant complaining: They always focus on problems, rarely offering solutions or positive alternatives.
• Gossip and negativity: They spread rumors and bad-mouth others.
• Sarcasm and cynicism: Their humor is often cutting and puts others down.
• Blame game: They avoid taking responsibility for mistakes and shift blame to others.

Attitude:

• Generally negative outlook: They expect the worst in any situation and rarely see the bright side.
• Disengaged and unmotivated: They lack enthusiasm and bring down the team spirit.
• Critical and resistant to change: They see flaws in everything and oppose new ideas without considering them.

Behavior:

• Constant negativity: Even small setbacks turn into major dramas.
• Disruptive and argumentative: They create conflict and make collaboration difficult.
• Unreliable and unproductive: They miss deadlines and don’t take ownership of their work.

It’s important to note that everyone has bad days. However, if these behaviors are consistent and impacting you, then it’s a sign of negativity.

Here are some additional tips:

• Observe their impact: Notice how their behavior affects you and others.
• Consider the context: Is their negativity due to a specific situation?
• Trust your gut: If someone consistently drains your energy, they’re probably negative.

By recognizing negative people, you can take steps to protect your own well-being and navigate the situation effectively.

It would be wise for one to fin positive people to hang around. Here are some ways to recognize positive people:

• Speech patterns: They focus on the positive aspects of situations, using encouraging language and avoiding negativity. They compliment others and express gratitude.
• Attitude: They tend to be optimistic and solution-oriented. They bounce back from setbacks easily and focus on what they can control.
• Body language: They make eye contact, smile often, and have open postures.
• Actions: They follow through on commitments, are helpful to others, and take initiative.

Now, for the benefits of surrounding yourself with positive people:

• Uplifts your mood: Positivity is contagious! Spending time with optimistic people can rub off on you, making you feel happier and more hopeful.
• Boosts resilience: Positive people can help you see the bright side of challenges and encourage you to keep going when things get tough.
• Improves well-being: Studies have shown that positive social connections can lead to better physical and mental health.
• Expands your network: Positive people tend to attract others with similar outlooks, which can help you build a supportive and encouraging social circle.

Remember, nobody is positive all the time. But surrounding yourself with generally positive people can make a big difference in your overall outlook and well-being.

If what is bothering you is that you are a negative person, do not worry; there is a solution. Luckily for you, a positive attitude can be learned and applied. Everyone has the opportunity to change their negative attitude into a positive one. There are many books available on this subject. All you have to do is search for books on this topic.