Wherever We Land

Do you see yourself as a leader?

As I reflect on the call to lead young women, my thoughts turn to the words of Titus in the Bible, where clear standards for spiritual leadership are laid out. Titus 2:3-5 provides powerful guidance for those of us who are called to lead and mentor younger women, and it’s a passage I hold close to my heart:

“The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things; That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed” (Titus 2:3-5, KJV).

These verses are not just a suggestion, but a divine mandate for those of us who want to live in a way that pleases God while guiding others along their spiritual journeys. Titus reminds me that my leadership should come from a place of holiness and self-discipline, setting an example that young women can look to as they navigate their own lives.

Living the Example, Not Just Speaking It

Titus 2:3 tells us, “The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things.” This verse challenges me to lead by example in how I live my daily life. My behavior must reflect holiness—something that is not just taught but lived. It reminds me that as I walk through life, every action is an opportunity to either reflect God’s character or fall short of it.

I’ve learned that words, while important, can only go so far. It’s through my daily choices that I truly teach. When the young women I mentor see how I respond to challenges, how I manage relationships, and how I maintain my commitment to God, they learn what it means to live a godly life. They don’t need just another set of instructions—they need to see faith in action.

Am I modeling patience in trials? Am I showing grace in difficult situations? These are the moments that matter, the ones where my life speaks louder than my words ever could.

Constantly Evolving as a Leader

One thing I’ve come to realize is that leadership, especially in the spiritual sense, is not something that remains stagnant. It requires growth, reflection, and humility. I constantly return to Titus 2:4, which says, “That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children.” This passage teaches me that leadership isn’t just about knowledge—it’s about cultivating the qualities of love, responsibility, and sobriety (in both thought and action).

God continues to mold and refine me every day. I am learning to balance strength with gentleness, to be bold but also compassionate, and to demonstrate wisdom through the choices I make. Each day, I ask God to help me grow into the leader He has called me to be, so that I can better serve and guide those young women He has placed in my life.

Showing Rather Than Telling

Titus 2:5 highlights that young women should be “discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.” This verse is a reminder of the importance of integrity and self-control in all areas of life. As a leader, I strive not only to teach these virtues but to embody them in a way that speaks louder than any sermon could.

When I encourage young women to be discreet and chaste, I make sure that I live these values, too. When I speak of the importance of loving and caring for their families, I strive to show them how I do the same in my own home. Leading isn’t just about saying the right thing—it’s about living the right way.

I want the young women I mentor to see my faith in action, so they understand what it looks like to walk daily in God’s truth. Whether it’s in how I handle my responsibilities, show love, or seek to glorify God, I want my life to be an open book that points them to Christ.

Conclusion: The Journey Continues

Leading young women according to the standards set in Titus is a journey—one that involves constant growth, self-reflection, and leaning on God’s grace. As I continue to evolve as a leader, I pray that my life would be a living example of holiness, humility, and love.

The world is full of distractions and false teachings, but as long as I keep my eyes on God and live out His Word, I trust that He will use my life to inspire and guide others. Titus 2:3-5 reminds me that my leadership is not just about what I say but about how I live. It is through living the Word of God that I can truly lead others and help them grow into the women God has called them to be.

In all things, my prayer is that God would continue to shape me into the leader He desires, so that my life, more than my words, speaks of His goodness and love.