Wherever We Land

Growing up, the first person I turned to for advice on just about anything was my grandmother. She was wise, steady, and full of love—and her guidance often felt like gold. Whether I was facing a big decision or just needed to know the best way to get a stain out of a shirt, Grandma always had an answer rooted in experience, patience, and faith.

Now that she’s gone, I’ve come to realize how deeply I leaned on her. Not just because she was family, but because her advice was trustworthy and anchored in godly principles. She didn’t just tell me what sounded good—she told me what was right. And in this season of life, I understand the Bible’s wisdom when it says we should seek counsel from godly elders (Proverbs 11:14, Titus 2:3-5).

That truth has become more real to me lately, especially as my husband and I make plans for our next camping trip or consider which products to use in our van build. You wouldn’t think you’d need spiritual insight for picking a portable toilet or deciding which campground to stay at—but when you’re living a lifestyle that aims to honor God in everything, even the little decisions can carry weight.

But here’s the challenge: it’s not always easy to find godly counsel. In today’s world, there’s no shortage of opinions—YouTube, blogs, reviews, social media. Everyone has a voice, but not everyone’s voice is rooted in truth or righteousness. Sometimes I find myself wishing I could just call Grandma up, knowing she’d remind me to pray first, ask what the Word says, and wait patiently for the Lord to direct our path.

So I’m learning to slow down and seek God’s voice first. I still ask for advice—but I now filter it through prayer and Scripture. And when I do find a godly elder who lives by the Word, I don’t take that for granted. I listen. I ask questions. I pay attention, because those voices are precious and rare.

Whether it’s choosing how to outfit our van, where to camp next, or how to handle life’s deeper challenges, I want every decision to reflect a heart that seeks God first. Grandma planted that seed in me, and now I understand even more deeply how important it is to let it grow by surrounding myself with wise, faithful people—and by staying rooted in the Word myself.

If you’re on a similar path, don’t be discouraged if godly counsel seems hard to find. Keep praying. Keep seeking. And remember, the greatest Counselor of all is always just a prayer away.